Month: February 2018

How To Tell Your Kid About Your Marriage Problems


As if marriage on the rocks is not a trouble big enough, there are always other challenges that are yet to be faced.

One of them and the biggest according to me is that you need to be up front with your children. You do not want to lie but you also know that their tender psyche can only take so much trauma so you censor a lot of things beforehand and in your mind and make sure that you tell the truth without too much beating around but in a way the is digestible. Maybe in bits and pieces with a lot of compassion and empathy because they suffer from a break up of their parents as much as the spouses go through a harrowing time through an after the breakup.

Indeed the children of the couple are the worst affected if you ask me. God forbid that people with children to support separately. I know a couple who met on a site زواج and were madly in love with each other and had a bitter separation in a matter of a decade!

Trying to work around it is the best approach:

But if things are beyond reconciliation or if one of the partners is as the risk of his life or is prone to injury if he or she stays put in the relationship then the better thing is always to move on.

Never be afraid to talk about it in case the kids bring it up:

This is the safest approach and it means that the kids do know there is something wrong so you do not have to start from the beginning. However, you will need to choose your words appropriately not blaming the other spouse too much but also maintaining a line where you say that you both are no longer compatible.

You could also consider speaking to a therapist before you start a conversation on those lines with the kids. It is important that you assure them that things will still be okay even if you separate and make sure that they do not have the pangs of separation from the other biological parent. It is best to even leave the decision to them as to whom he or she would like to stay with after separation even though there are Qur’anic injunctions dealing with the custody of children that will prevail if both the parents are Muslims.…

The Truth About Enhancement Pills When Dating

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The first thing that haunts men when they get a dating proposal is their penile size. Yes once a boy enters his teenage phase, the first thought is about the size of his penis and this is going to torment him more when he starts comparing his with the others. The first question to such people is whether they know what a perfect penis would look like. This is an unanswered question till date because there is nothing like a perfect penis or imperfect penis because there are specified or standard sizes. Yes, if this is understood well, then most of the men who believe themselves to be undersized would actually realize that theirs is well grown for a healthy and happy relationship.

Research says that most of the men who worry about their penis being small are actually the ones with a perfect and healthy size. So it is all about how we take it and how we conceive and perceive things. The human mind is a monkey mind. Though there are a lot of explanations and evidence proving this fact there are still men who yearn for a bigger size and it is for them that we have the male enhancement pills.

  • Youngsters go for such products when they have a date proposal from the lady-like
  • People in a legal, marital relationship also go for such pills and techniques when they want to make love with their spouses

So in all and any case, these are products in demand. But the unbelievable candid is that they are just mental enhancers making a person feel that he has improved his stamina and size with nothing actually done to the penis physically and evidently. Vigrx plus is what I always use and it has given me the required confidence and manliness to be in bed for a long time making things successful.…